Hello??? It is MY SL don't tell me how to do it....

I had tossed my hat back in the dating ring.  Boards at dating site and AVMatch.  I've connected with probably 10 people so far.  What I have learned is that the majority of people seem to have strong opinions on how others should live their SL, what they should post on their blogs, what should be in their profile, and that many of them not only "know" what is best for you, but they know what you think before you do.....at least they *think* they do.   Unbelievable.  

Where the heck does that "privilege" come from?  Seriously?  What about meeting people, taking their words as their truth.  Learning about them.  And stop the ASSUMING.  Cause you know that whole ass thing......

There are some amazing people in SL, thank goodness.  I have met a few and those who are already in my life are treasured.  

However, I can't tolerate the big headed know-it-alls that have preformed opinions and think they know best for others and give unsolicited advice constantly to a newly met, potential friend, at a minimum.  

I'm going it alone.  

3/24/22 update:  Prior post has an update.  I'm NOT going it alone.  My man will be back. He will escape RL eventually and come back to me but until then, I'm content.  And very fuzzy excited inside.  That whole absence makes the heart......

… miss you …

A very special someone was in my life. Then RL got super busy for him. He was last in three weeks ago.  He’s such a wonderful man, he has indicated he will be back at some time, but said something about “if you don’t replace me.”

I’m not big on social media or texting services really and don’t have discord on my phone. He’s been on my mind and my eyes were leaking today, so I logged in to discord on my desktop and had to send a note. 

Rhawnie: .....miss you.....  (yup, that was all)

Travis: (some rl stuff you don’t get to know) …. and I miss you too … really do, my batgirl …. Really do ….

It’s kind of a melancholy thing. I did think he would be back and I’d been holding out hope. Recently I had kind of given up and today was really tough. That response makes my heart warm. His special term of endearment and reemphasizing that he missed me. I’m still smitten. 

Update 3/24/22:  He WILL BE BACK!  He popped in to SL this morning to take care of tiers and when this period of crazy busy RL is through.....he will be back.  I see the light at the end of the tunnel now and it is worth it.  He is worth it.  We are worth it.  Tell me at the beginning when we were struggling with the lack of time that I'd go through basically month/s without him and be ok with it?  I'd have thought you were nuts.  But I am.  The connection is that strong and worth it.  He is my person.

LAUGH!

As we age, we all take ourselves too seriously.  We need to laugh more.  In all worlds.